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A Lavish Sikh Wedding at Clevedon Hall - a blog written by Isha Lakhani from Guides for Brides.

Arjun and Amariese tied the knot in a breathtaking celebration of their love at the magnificent Clevedon Hall in Somerset. This grand event spanned over two vibrant, ritual-filled days, with an elegant blend of tradition, family, and festivities that honoured their cultural heritage. The ceremonies, infused with deep symbolism and heartfelt moments, were followed by joyous celebrations that included music, dance, and feasting.
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The Venue

Clevedon Hall was chosen as the setting for Arjun and Amariese's multi-day wedding. This exclusive use venue  offered a stunning backdrop for the couple's vibrant celebrations as well as complete privacy for them to celebrate with their friends and family. The venue provided the perfect setting for a multi-day wedding celebration, with 25 beautifully appointed luxurious rooms, that ensured that every wedding guest could relax throughout the festivities. The heart of the celebration unfolded in the Great Hall, an expansive, elegant space that effortlessly accommodated the gala gathering. For the wedding ceremony itself, the enchanting Gazebo nestled in the lush gardens offered a truly magical, picturesque backdrop, perfect for creating unforgettable memories amidst nature's beauty.

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The Fashion

Amariese's bridal looks for each ceremony were nothing short of stunning. For the Maiyan, Choora, and Chunni ceremonies, she wore a beautiful blue salwar-kameez that was simple yet elegant, perfectly capturing the traditional spirit of the events. As the evening festivities of the Jaggo approached, she transformed into a vibrant and colorful lehenga, ideal for twirling across the dance floor. On the wedding day, she took everyone's breath away in a dazzling red bridal lehenga, radiating timeless beauty. For the grand finale at the wedding reception, Amariese opted for a gorgeous white lehenga, setting the tone for her fairytale ending.

Arjun's style choices were equally impressive, with each outfit thoughtfully selected for the occasion. For the Jaggo ceremony, he kept it simple with a subtle shirt and pants, allowing him to dance freely and enjoy the celebration. On the wedding day, he perfectly complemented Amariese in a striking golden sherwani, exuding regal charm. As the celebrations came to a close, he chose a sharp black suit, giving a sophisticated finish to their unforgettable wedding journey. The wedding guests embraced the vibrant spirit of the celebrations, donning a beautiful mix of traditional Indian attire, from elegant sarees to colorful kurtas and cholis, adding to the festive atmosphere.

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Let's take a closer look at the key rituals that made their wedding so memorable.

Day One: A Beautiful Journey of Pre-Wedding Rituals

Maiyan Ceremony: A Cleansing Start

The festivities began with the Maiyan ceremony, a traditional cleansing ritual. Family and friends gathered around the bride and groom as they lovingly applied yellow turmeric paste to their skin. This symbolic paste not only represents purification but also marks the start of their wedding journey.

Overhead, a red chunni (scarf) was held at each corner by four guests, creating a beautiful canopy for the couple. The laughter and warmth of everyone rubbing the turmeric paste on Arjun and Amariese symbolised the family and friends' support and blessings for their new life together. The ceremony concluded with a red thread tied around the couple's wrists, symbolising protection and the blessings of all present. If you can, it is tradition to keep this on until it falls off.

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Choora Ceremony: Blessings of Red Bangles

The second ceremony was the Choora, a touching moment shared between Amariese and her maternal uncle (Mama). He gently placed the traditional red bangles on her wrists, which are traditionally to be worn for five weeks.

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Chunni Ceremony: Welcoming the Bride

The Chunni ceremony followed, where Arjun's family "officially" welcomed Amariese into their lives. The groom's family placed a vibrant red chunni on her shoulders, along with gifts, symbolising their acceptance of her as their daughter-in-law. It was a tender moment that united the two families with love and tradition.
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Jaggo: The Party Begins!

Once the ceremonial rituals concluded, the party truly began with the Jaggo - a vibrant and energetic celebration! The maternal side of both families danced in with drums, bright colours, and pots with lit candles balanced on their heads. The Jaggo, meaning "stay awake," symbolises the beginning of the wedding celebrations, inviting everyone to join in the music and dancing, and that's exactly what happened! Family and friends took turns passing the Jaggo between them, dancing with pure joy and anticipation for the big day ahead.

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Day Two: The Wedding Day

Baraat: The Groom's Grand Arrival

The wedding day started in grand style with Arjun's Baraat; he arrived on a white horse, accompanied by his family and friends. There was also an Ardas (a short prayer) in which all guests bowed to the ground at the end. The Baraat is not just a visual spectacle, but a lively event with drums, music, and dancing, showcasing how well the groom's side can celebrate! Upon arrival, Arjun and his family were warmly received by Amariese's family, marking the start of the union.

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Milni Ceremony: Uniting the Families

The Milni ceremony followed, where key members from both families officially met. This symbolic gesture represents the coming together of two families and the joining of their lives through the marriage of their children.

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Anand Karaj: The Sikh Wedding Ceremony

The heart of the celebration was the Anand Karaj, the traditional Sikh wedding ceremony. Under a beautifully adorned gazebo, the Guru Granth Sahib (holy book) was placed, and guests were invited to remove their shoes and cover their heads before entering. Guests then proceeded down the aisle and bowed down to the floor, placing money in the box at the front. Traditionally this goes towards the development of the temple. However, the wedding 'priests' were volunteers and every penny donated was to develop the Bebe Nanaki Charitable Hospital and Diagnostic Centre in India.

Ladies then sat on the floor to the left, and men on the floor to the right, as you look towards the front. The religious ladies on the stage sang prayers throughout, and the first ceremony was the Karmai on the groom.

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BLOG CREDIT: Isha Lakhani from Guides for Brides

Read the full blog here: A Lavish Sikh Wedding at Clevedon Hall

1. Plant-Based and Sustainable Menus

The demand for plant-based cuisine is skyrocketing in 2024, as more couples prioritize sustainability and healthier eating habits. Even non-vegans are embracing plant-based options, and caterers are rising to the occasion with creative and flavorful dishes that celebrate vegetables as the star of the plate. Key features include:

• Vegan fine dining: Think gourmet, plant-based tasting menus with dishes like mushroom risotto, roasted vegetable tartlets, and cashew cream sauces. These aren’t just side dishes but carefully curated, elegant meals that even non-vegans will love.
• Farm-to-table: Locally sourced, seasonal ingredients are a staple, ensuring that the menu is both sustainable and fresh. This trend helps support local farms and minimizes the carbon footprint.
• Meat alternatives: Creative use of plant-based proteins, like jackfruit “pulled pork” or Beyond Meat sliders, allows for familiar flavors with a sustainable twist.

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2. Global Flavors and Fusion Cuisine

As couples come from increasingly diverse backgrounds, wedding menus in 2024 are embracing global flavors and fusion cuisine. This trend allows couples to incorporate their cultural heritage or favorite travel destinations into their celebrations. Some popular ideas include:

• Fusion stations: Catering services are creating stations that combine flavors from different cultures, like sushi tacos or Korean BBQ sliders, blending the best of both worlds.
• Regional street food: Couples are opting for street food-inspired dishes from around the world—think Indian samosas, Mexican elote, or Italian arancini—for a more casual and fun vibe.
• Interactive global buffets: Instead of a traditional sit-down dinner, couples are setting up global food stations where guests can explore different cuisines at their own pace, like a Mediterranean mezze bar or a Japanese ramen station.

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3. Interactive Food Stations

Gone are the days of cookie-cutter buffets or fixed menus. Interactive food stations are one of the biggest wedding food trends of 2024, offering guests a more dynamic and customizable dining experience. Popular ideas include:

• DIY food bars: Guests can create their own dishes at stations like a taco bar, build-your-own pizza, or poke bowl station. This trend adds a fun, interactive element to the reception while catering to a wide range of tastes.
• Live cooking stations: Hiring chefs to prepare food in front of guests brings an element of theater to the meal. Whether it’s a pasta-making station, sushi-rolling demonstration, or a live grilling setup, these stations turn dining into an immersive experience.

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• Charcuterie boards and grazing tables: Oversized charcuterie boards filled with artisanal cheeses, cured meats, fresh fruits, nuts, and bread are becoming a popular alternative to passed appetizers. Grazing tables allow guests to pick and choose as they mingle, making the meal more social.

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4. Creative Desserts and Alternative Cakes

While classic wedding cakes still have their place, couples in 2024 are opting for more creative, playful dessert options to surprise their guests. Unique alternatives include:

• Mini dessert bars: Instead of one large cake, couples are offering a variety of smaller, bite-sized desserts like mini cheesecakes, macarons, and cupcakes, allowing guests to sample a range of sweets.

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• Dessert food trucks: From ice cream trucks to churro carts, food trucks serving sweet treats are becoming a fun and Instagram-worthy addition to wedding receptions.
• Non-traditional cakes: While multi-tiered cakes are still popular, many couples are opting for unique alternatives like croquembouche (a tower of cream-filled profiteroles), donut walls, or even cheese-wheel "cakes" for those who prefer savory over sweet.

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5. Zero-Waste Catering

As sustainability takes center stage, zero-waste weddings are gaining momentum in 2024. Couples are working with caterers to minimize food waste and adopt eco-friendly practices. This trend includes:

• Eco-conscious portions: Caterers are focusing on creating smaller, more intentional portion sizes to avoid excess food waste. Instead of large, overwhelming platters, dishes are served as elegant, manageable portions.

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• Reusable or compostable dishware: To minimize the environmental impact of single-use plastics, couples are opting for eco-friendly alternatives like compostable cutlery, bamboo plates, or renting reusable glassware and crockery.
• Leftover donation: Many couples are partnering with local organizations to donate any leftover food to shelters or food banks, ensuring that nothing goes to waste.

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6. Cocktail Pairings and Specialty Drinks

‍2024 weddings are elevating their drink game with curated cocktail pairings and signature beverages that reflect the couple’s personalities. Here’s what’s trending:

• Craft cocktail bars: Instead of a standard open bar, couples are hiring mixologists to create bespoke cocktails tailored to their tastes or the wedding theme. These drinks often feature unique ingredients like elderflower, lavender, or artisanal bitters.

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• Non-alcoholic options: With the rise of health-conscious living, mocktails and alcohol-free options are becoming more sophisticated. Signature mocktails using fresh, seasonal ingredients give non-drinking guests a special experience.
• Local and craft beverages: Supporting local breweries, distilleries, and wineries is a big part of 2024 wedding menus. Craft beers, artisanal gin, and locally produced wines add a personal touch while supporting regional businesses.

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7. Personalized Menus

Couples in 2024 are making their wedding menus more personal by infusing them with elements that reflect their relationship or family traditions. Popular ideas include:

• Family recipes: Many couples are incorporating cherished family recipes into their wedding menu, whether it’s a signature dish from a grandparent’s cookbook or a cultural staple that’s meaningful to the couple.

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• Themed menus: For couples who share a favorite food, TV show, or book, themed menus are a playful way to personalize the dining experience. A "Harry Potter"-inspired menu with butterbeer or a “Game of Thrones” banquet-style feast are fun ideas that guests will remember.
• Custom wine and cocktail labels: Some couples are taking personalization a step further by creating custom labels for wine bottles or cocktails, featuring their wedding date, a special message, or even a logo designed just for the big day.

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8. Family-Style Dining

‍For couples seeking a more relaxed and communal dining experience, family-style service is making a comeback. This trend allows guests to share large platters of food at the table, encouraging interaction and a warm, intimate atmosphere. Popular choices include:

• Rustic comfort food: Think hearty, shareable dishes like roast chicken, mac and cheese, or vegetable gratins served family-style. These meals evoke a cozy, home-cooked feel that guests love.

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• Communal platters: Instead of individual plates, large charcuterie boards, seafood towers, or antipasto platters are placed on each table for guests to share and enjoy together.

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Conclusion

The wedding food trends of 2024 reflect a shift toward personalization, sustainability, and interactive experiences. Whether couples are embracing plant-based menus, indulging in global flavors, or serving family recipes with a twist, wedding cuisine is becoming more dynamic and memorable. The focus is no longer just on feeding guests but on crafting a dining experience that reflects the couple’s values, personalities, and creativity. Whatever your vision for your big day, these food trends offer endless inspiration for creating a delicious and meaningful celebration.

There’s something undeniably magical about autumn and winter weddings, especially when celebrated in a luxurious 18th-century venue. The blend of historic charm, seasonal ambiance, and opulent surroundings makes these colder months ideal for couples seeking a romantic and timeless setting. As nature transitions from the golden hues of autumn to the frosted elegance of winter, your wedding can become an enchanting experience, filled with warmth, elegance, and unforgettable beauty.

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The Allure of an 18th-Century Venue

The grandeur of an 18th-century venue brings an air of sophistication and history to your wedding. Imagine a stately manor, set amidst manicured gardens and sweeping landscapes, with its classical architecture, lavish interiors, and ornate detailing. These venues often feature grand staircases, marble fireplaces, and chandeliers that cast a soft glow over intimate spaces. The combination of these architectural elements with the changing seasons creates a unique atmosphere where tradition meets romance.

In autumn, as the leaves fall and the air turns crisp, the soft, golden light filters through the tall windows, illuminating the rich wooden paneling and antique furnishings. In winter, the venue transforms into a cozy retreat, where roaring fireplaces and candlelit rooms evoke an intimate charm that is perfect for a winter wonderland wedding.

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The Beauty of an Autumn Wedding

Autumn weddings at a historic venue are pure enchantment. The natural palette of the season—burnt oranges, deep reds, and golden yellows—complements the historical elegance of the venue. The gardens, often adorned with centuries-old trees, provide a stunning backdrop of changing leaves, perfect for capturing breath taking photographs.

This season lends itself to rustic yet refined décor. Imagine dining in a grand hall with tables adorned with gold accents, flickering candlelight, and floral arrangements filled with rich autumnal blooms like dahlias, roses, and chrysanthemums. Paired with dark wood furniture and soft linens, these colors create a warm and inviting atmosphere.

For couples looking to embrace the season’s flavors, autumn weddings offer the chance to infuse your menu with cozy, comforting dishes. Think mulled wine, spiced cocktails, and a seasonal menu featuring hearty dishes like roast meats, squash, and figs. As guests gather around the fireplace during cocktail hour, sipping on warm drinks, the venue’s timeless charm adds to the feeling of indulgence.

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The Magic of a Winter Wonderland Wedding

Winter weddings evoke the essence of a classic fairy tale. With frost-covered gardens and possibly even a dusting of snow, the setting becomes a serene, winter wonderland. The contrast between the cold outdoors and the warmth inside the grand manor is what makes winter weddings so special.

Picture arriving at your venue amidst a backdrop of bare trees and twinkling lights, with the historic façade glowing softly against the winter sky. Inside, grand fireplaces roar, filling the space with warmth as your guests enjoy hot chocolate bars, champagne, or signature winter cocktails. The décor can lean into the season’s cool tones—white, silver, and icy blue—or opt for a more traditional palette of rich reds and greens, accented with garlands of evergreens and berry-laden branches.

Winter weddings also offer endless opportunities for lavish attire. Brides can don luxurious velvet shawls, faux fur wraps, or long-sleeved lace gowns that echo the elegance of the venue. Grooms can complement the aesthetic with sharp, tailored suits in rich fabrics like wool or velvet. The cold weather encourages layering, adding a regal touch to your overall look.

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The Benefits of an Off-Peak Wedding

Another advantage of autumn and winter weddings is the possibility of securing your dream 18th-century venue at a more favorable rate. Many venues experience lower demand during the colder months, which can open up a wider range of dates and provide additional flexibility for couples. Moreover, with fewer weddings happening, you can expect more personalized attention from venue staff and vendors, ensuring every detail is meticulously executed.

You also have more freedom to customize your day without the restrictions of peak wedding season schedules. Whether you want an outdoor ceremony in an autumn garden followed by an indoor reception or a late-afternoon winter wedding that flows seamlessly into an evening of dancing by the fire, the venue’s timeless elegance offers endless versatility.

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Capturing Timeless Memories

The historic ambiance of an 18th-century venue provides the perfect canvas for timeless wedding photography. In autumn, the golden light filtering through the foliage creates a dreamlike quality, while winter’s crisp, pale light highlights the grandeur of the venue’s architecture and the intimacy of indoor moments.

Imagine your wedding photos: under a canopy of autumn leaves, wrapped in a fur stole on a winter balcony overlooking frost-covered gardens, or sharing a kiss in front of a roaring fire in a candlelit room. These settings ensure that your wedding album will be filled with moments that look and feel like they’ve been plucked from the pages of a romantic novel.

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The Perfect Backdrop for Love

Autumn and winter weddings at a historic manor house are for couples who want more than just a wedding—they want an experience. These venues exude history, beauty, and charm, and when paired with the cozy elegance of the colder months, they create an atmosphere that is unforgettable.

Whether you choose to say your vows surrounded by the vibrant colors of fall or under the glow of chandeliers in a winter wonderland, a historic venue offers a timeless backdrop that makes every moment feel like a scene from a classic love story. After all, when you marry in a venue steeped in history, you’re not just celebrating the start of your future—you’re also becoming part of a legacy that has stood the test of time.